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If this is the only kind of
communication you have with your parents, the bond between you can
be irreparably damaged. Conversation filled with criticism is not
conversation but a sparring match. There is no winner. Here are ten
tips for better talk with your parents.
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Willingly stop any activity to talk with your parent.
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Set aside time for each parent.
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Focus attention on your parent’s words, tone of voice, and body
language.
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Allow your parent to choose the topic of discussion.
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Let your parent have an opportunity to dominate the conversation.
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Express understanding and sympathy.
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Respect your parentis point of view, and don't evaluate feelings or
opinions.
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Maintain eye contact. Don't look away.
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Sit physically close to your parent.
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Relax and enjoy the conversation.
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